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Online Dating Advice: Meeting Online

Mon, 25 Jun 2007 06:49:00 -0600

There are many more benefits to meeting people online as you may meet far more people than you would meet on your own as well as more varieties of people via an online dating site. One does find out things that we never knew about ourselves before especially discovering something about our own needs and tastes and wants that we never realized that we had.

When you first check out an online dating site you have the advantage of checking out someone's personal profile prior to communicating with them. Things to do if you decide to contact them is to take a look at a compatibility test if this is offered, their photos and reading their profile so you may get to know them a little before you even communicate.

As well when using the services of an online dating site you should first get to know the terms and conditions for their membership. Remember that the terms and conditions of an online dating site vary from one to another. Most online dating sites you have to become a paid member while there are others that you don't. It is to your advantage to understand the culture of a certain online dating community before you decide to join and participate.

As well when considering online dating don't restrict your self to joining one online dating site. Diversify yourself and join a few different online dating sites as this way you will have some variety.

If you have just come out of a divorce or have been recently widowed, be sure of your self that you are ready to get back into the dating game. It is to your advantage to take things a little slower and to be sure of your self prior to making the big plunge.

Yes when we are in the early stages of love, we find our selves over excited about things and we become preoccupied focusing only on the good things in the other person instead of considering the other things. We forget about things like how do they manage money, do they want children or how do they resolve conflicts.

There are lot of things that you must consider when meeting someone online as a potential partner as it is to your advantage to get to know the good and the bad before you make a life long commitment.

For June 25, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News.

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LavalifePrime for the Single Baby Boomers

Sun, 17 Jun 2007 21:41:19 -0600

A new addition to the online dating scene at Lavalife is the addition of their new site for the single baby boomers called LavaLifePrime.com. According to CEO Marina Glogovac with Lavalife over the past two years the baby boomer demographic-aged 42-61-has become the fastest growing segment of the dating market.

This is a good business move for Lavalife as the Boomers are affluent and see themselves as being young, vibrant and datable. Yes there are a lot ob boomers and although online dating is nothing new the boomers are embracing the medium en masse.

According to statistics about 1/3 of the 85 million boomers in North America are single and 70% of them consider themselves Internet savvy according to the American Association of Retired People(AARP).

As well according to Match.com they have reported an increase of baby boomers of more than 340% since 2000.

For those of you boomers that are considering joining LavalifePrime we will be adding them to our online dating site in the next couple of weeks. For June 17, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News.

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Some Advice on Writing a Dating Profile

Tue, 12 Jun 2007 21:53:35 -0600

What is going to capture the attention of a potential date or the person of your dreams using an online dating site, could it be your personal profile that captures their attention? If you are to be successful in your online dating endeavors than writing an effective profile is of utmost importance.

You will find that most online dating sites will give you tips to help you write a more effective profile. Prior to writing your profile you should be aware as to what you are seeking in a potential partner or even a friend.

Sometimes it is to your benefit to talk to a friend and ask for advice as to how you should write your profile. It isn't necessary that you take their advice but it is guidance as to how you should write your profile to attract that perfect match.

When creating your profile remember that an online dating profile remember it includes a username, a headline, information about yourself and a photograph.

Create a username for yourself that is unique and that reveals an attractive aspect of your personality.

Your headline should contain a brief phrase about yourself and what you are seeking and should as well be lively and cheerful. Remember that the human eye generally rests for three seconds so you only have those three seconds to capture your potential mate's attention.

Some other tips that you should keep in mind are as follows.

1 Never copy others profiles.

2 You definitely should be honest about your height, weight and complexion.

3 Avoid any negatives in your profile.

4 You should write as if you are talking face to face with your dream date.

5 Keep the profile length appropriate so your dream date thirsts for more.

6 Speak freely and honestly about your values and interests.

7 See that your language is vibrant as well as being humorous.

8 Make sure that your profile is free of errors.

Studies as well show that profiles that have photos generate 80% more response than those that don't have photos. Make sure that your photo is recent and remember to smile.

If you follow the above guidelines in creating your personal profile you will more than likely be successful in finding your dream date or future partner.

For June 12, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News.

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Sex Ed For The Older Set by Shelly Walcott

Sat, 9 Jun 2007 22:02:30 -0600

Baby boomers are expected to live longer than any previous generation of Americans. But they have more to worry about than gray hair and arthritis. Sexually transmitted diseases are a threat many of them don't even consider.

Jane Fowler is a mother, a grandmother, and an HIV-positive divorcee.

"After my divorce I gave little thought, no thought to STD's," Jane admits.

At nearly 50, she was reluctantly back on the dating scene. She had few sexual partners, and knew them all well.

"I knew that I couldn't become pregnant, so the idea of using protection of some kind, i.e. a condom, didn't enter my mind," she says.

So, when a routine blood test revealed that she had HIV, she was shocked. But Fred Wyand with the American Social Health Association says Jane's not alone.

"HIV is extremely prevalent among ages 45, 50 and older," he explains.

Rita Strombeck is President of the HealthCare Education Associates. She agrees it's a growing problem.

"It's increasing at a faster rate among older people than younger people, especially women," Strombeck tells us.

In fact, in 2005, CDC estimates show there were nearly double the amount of people diagnosed over the age of 40 as people in their twenties. Research shows that's not the only risk.

"Since the late 90's, the incidence of Acute Hepatitis B has increased dramatically among those age 40 and older, much more so than what you see with 20 and 30-year-olds," Wyand says.

Aging singles looking for love have never had so many choices. From speed dating events that cater to their demographic, to online match-making services.

"You can cast the net so much wider than you could 10 or 15 years ago," Wyand points out.

Healthcare educators say the boomer generation needs a refresher course in sex ed.

"They don't think it's a problem for them. They don't recognize risk factors. The use of condoms is very low, particularly among this group," Strombeck says.

In a recent AARP study, older Americans say sex is a critical part of a relationship. Pair that with a spike in sex-enhancing drugs, and experts say you've got a potential second sexual revolution. Strombeck says online dating services need to be more proactive.

"There needs to be some kind of warning. It should be part of every online dating service."

Advocates also want education through employers. Jane says safety is not only for the young. She wishes she had been armed with the right information.

"HIV is a preventable disease. There's no reason one has to become infected with it or any other STD," Jane says.

After being diagnosed, Jane founded 'HIV Wisdom' for older women. Her message is that age is no vaccine against HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases.

We contacted some leading dating sites about the issue. Only Match-Dot-Com got back to us, saying it does not have any safe sex messages on its site.

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eHarmony: no online dating for gays and lesbians?

Sat, 2 Jun 2007 20:26:07 -0600

There's a web site that helps you find love, marriage, and cozy long walks on a beach. But not if you're gay.

Yesterday a lawsuit charged that eHarmony's "heterosexuals only" policy was illegal discrimination.

The lawsuit revives a controversy that's plagued eHarmony for years. More than two years ago, USA Today alluded to the company's conspicuous caveat in a fascinating profile of the site's founder - 72-year-old Neil Clark Warren. ("He's like the grandpa who wants to set you up," an analyst tells the newspaper.) But the article also quoted a gay New York psychiatrist who believed that "From a corporate perspective, eHarmony does discriminate. There's clearly a deliberate desire to exclude gay people from the site."

The company says it determines compatibility for its subscribers using research based on marriages - which, unfortunately, were not the same-sex kind. A Wikipedia entry raises questions about this explanation, however, and notes the company has ties to conservative political activist James Dobson.

Seizing the opportunity, a rival site launched Friday catering exclusively to gay men. (It's called myPartnerPerfect.com, and offers its males-only service for just $37.95 a month, or $204 for a year).

But surprisingly, eHarmony had just prevailed in an earlier lawsuit yesterday. A man sued when his membership was declined because he was "legally separated" from his wife. (Technically, eHarmony felt, the man was still legally married to his wife.) And in April the company also faced complaints that they were rejecting men who weren't tall enough.

Friday news of the lawsuit hit the Associated Press wire service, appearing in hundreds of newspapers across America. eHarmony issued a carefully-worded statement in the story, which they apparently hope will defuse the controversy. They announced that "Nothing precludes us from providing same-sex matching in the future."

eHarmony isn't saying that they will. They're just saying that they can.

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Adding a Newsletter to the Online Dating Advisors

Sat, 19 May 2007 14:04:25 -0600

For those of you who would be interested in receiving a Newsletter on a monthly basis, we will be releasing our first Newsletter called the "Dating Advisor Newsletter" on June 2, 2007. If you would like to sign up for our monthly newsletter you may do so by filling in the form at any of the following web pages.

You will find that we will keep you informed and up to date as to any additions or changes to our online dating website. We want you to have the latest news if there may be change with the monthly subscription fees charged by some of the online dating sites whether they may raise them or if they have a deal going on for new members

As well we will keep you updated as to any special sales that are being offered by any of the online merchants that we promote via our Romantic Gifts web page. Whether it may be flowers, sexy underwear or just everyday clothes there is always a sale happening at one of the online merchants that we promote.

So if you decide that you would like to subscribe to our Dating Advisor Newsletter please do so and we will add you to our mailing list. For May 19, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News. Remember that every Romance starts out with a date.

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Remembering Mother's Day

Sun, 13 May 2007 10:17:09 -0600

Today is Mother's Day and I hope that you all have done something special for your mother. Whether it is the mother of your children or your mother, I hope that you did not forget this special day?

We have to remember if it our mother that they labored for nine months to bring us into this world, raised us to have some respect and we should return that respect by celebrating Mother's Day with them. If it is your wife and you that have children together; she labored for nine month months to bring your children into the world and remember her as well for what she has done.

You know if you forget your mother on this special day or your wife, then you have not being a caring enough husband and or son and neither will forget easily for what you have done. Remember that in marriage it is to celebrate these special days together as you will probably want her to remember you for Father's Day, so don't forget that special lady ever for Mother's Day.

For May 13, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News and may all you Mother's out there have a wonderful Mother's Day.

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Mother's Day May 13th

Fri, 4 May 2007 18:51:53 -0600

Well here is a day that will soon be upon us even though it has really nothing to do with online dating, though it has to do with showing your love. Whether it may be your wife the mother of your children or your mother, you should take time out to get these special ladies in your life something special for Mother's Day on May 13th.

Mother's Day has become a tradition like other special days of the year like Father's Day where we take time out to celebrate our time with them. It may be as simple as getting a nice bouquet of flowers or taking them out for a special dinner where you may all celebrate that special day together.

I realize that I no longer have my mother to celebrate Mother's Day with or my Father to celebrate Father's Day with, though I do have my beautiful wife Patricia to celebrate that special day with. We may all take things for granted, but we shouldn't whether it may be our wives the mother of our children or our own mothers who took time in their lives to carry us for nine months and then to raise us for what ever amount of years till we finally left home.

So for Mother's Day don't forget that special lady or ladies in your life for whom you should be so ever grateful to have in your life.

For May 4, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News.

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Selfish Women: Online Dating Advice for Men

Sat, 28 Apr 2007 18:51:02 -0600

When it comes to misrepresentation on the Internet with online dating, it is not only the men that misrepresent themselves. You will find that there are as well ladies who misrepresent themselves when it comes to you eventually finding out who they are.

You should be aware of those ladies who when you go out on a date are looking for you not only pay for their night out but as well as their extras that they think the man should pay for. I would suggest if you find yourself in a situation where you feel that the lady thinks she is privileged is to let her know in uncertain terms that if she thinks that she is privileged that you may be the wrong man for her.

If some women think that the average man should be for all their necessities then it is best to burst their bubble that they live in and let find out what reality for most people is. It is in your best interest to not even get involved with a lady such as this as they will more than likely break you financially with their extreme necessities that most women can do with out or end up paying for their own necessities.

If you find yourself marrying a lady like this and then find out her excessive needs after the fact, get out of the situation before it worsens. Some women will try to diminish the man and definitely do not let that happen, they will try to use you until you can no longer afford their excessive tastes, dump them before they break you.

In the end you are better off to choose a lady who is more average and you will more than likely have a very successful relationship as you both understand each others wants and needs as they are not excessive.

For April 28, 2007 this has been another edition of our Online Dating News.

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LavaLife Online Dating Site

Sun, 22 Apr 2007 21:23:03 -0600

Welcome to Lavalife your four in one online dating site with specific online dating sites for English speaking Canadians, French speaking Canadians, Australians as well as their world wide online dating site. As most other online dating sites their membership is free at Lavalife but they do have their catches as do other online dating sites.

At Lavalife you will find that it is very simple to create a personal profile and you may be viewing 1000s of members in 3 exciting communities at Lavalife. You may choose to look for someone for dating, creating a relationship to find romance or more or you may look for those for intimate encounters and explore your wild side.

With their Free Membership at Lavalife you will be limited as to what you may do when it comes to communicating with other members. Having their free membership will limit you to viewing videos and profiles of other members as well as to send and receives to other members.

The catch like any other online dating site is that you will have to take out a paid subscription if you are to have full benefits as a member. With their paid membership you will be able to also to send unlimited instant messages and also be able to send unlimited e-mails for as little as $29.99 per month.

As a member of Lavalife you must definitely make sure that you respect their guidelines for their Code of Ethics. The following are the activities that are not permitted by members of Lavalife:

I will treat fellow Lavalife members with dignity and respect
I will be truthful in the way I present myself in both my profile and pictures
I will not use Lavalife for commercial purposes or solicitation
I will not engage in any form of harassment or abusive behaviour

At Lavalife you also have the opportunity to meet with other members using their Lavalife by Phone. All you have to do is create a Voicemail Box, next record your profile and then you choose a community depending on your relationship needs which include relationships, dating and intimate encounters.

As well at Lavalife you may contact other members on their Lavalife Mobile and chat with fun, sexy, interesting people who are on the move. This is a great opportunity if you have text messaging or WAP browsing on your cell phone for communicating with other members of Lavalife who also have the same capabilities.

At Lavalife they also offer the Success Stories of those who have met at their online dating site and have ended up getting married. This is an excellent way for online dating sites to promote online dating by using the success stories of those who have met via their online dating site.

So if you are looking for a reputable and honest online dating site who is concerned for their members needs then Lavalife may be the online dating site for you.

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